There's a crazy trap that exists that is just "ripe" for an analogy.
It's called "The Monkey Trap".
The way it works is frankly genius. It's basically understanding behavior so well that whomever wants to catch a monkey, can.
Sounds crazy, huh?
Monkeys might be smart, but they're greedy. Greed makes them stupid, and then they get caught, and then they get dead and eaten
What is this ingenius trap? It's not so different than what controls us: Our drives, our impluses.
They make slaves of us all.
So, a monkey comes along and finds a banana in a small hole that he can just get his hand through.
When he grabs the banana, he is stuck, because he cannot get out of the trap while he is holding the banana.
So he tries and tries and tries, and fails. He cannot get his hand out of the hole while holding the banana.
Just drop the banana, right?
He can't. I mean he can: It's as simple as letting go. But he won't. It's in his nature to stubbornly hold onto that banana.
Next part? I told you: He gets himself dead and eaten. Not sure in which order over there.
But think about this guy a bit.
That's exactly how I feel about men who are slaves to their sex drives.
In my own life, I've seen so much ruin and devastation in my own and in my friend's lives, just because their dumb asses (and yes, mine too) thought with their sex drive.
How many times have others tried to warn me in my youth?
But I didn't. Almost killed me 6 years ago: I am so glad I survived and that I am where I am today.
Fair warning: I don't pull punches after this point:
Some may say that I hate women: I don't. I simply do not like the way that love and sexual relationships are today. In my own personal life I've found it more satisfying to just walk away.
If I hated women, I couldn't have a succubus. A succubus is concentrated "female". As concentrated as it gets. But it's pure. She's also a wildcat. Some people say that men are afraid of an intelligent, successful, powerful woman. No we aren't: We're afraid of an intelligent, successful, powerful woman's hypergamy. No sense in being "mr. right, right now" if she's just looking to trade up on the social/economic ladder later.
Why do succubi think feminism is retarded? Besides the obvious gap between what women say feminism is vs. what they do, there are no gender wars across the veil, there is no using X to get YZ.
There is no hidden agenda in using me, as a male, to get something else for her.
Yes, yes: It's hard to explain: But known once it is experienced.
It can also be equally experienced by a woman and her incubus. I'm all for happiness, not gender. I would love for EVERYONE to be happy if it were possible.
My patronesses are Goddesses and I have 3 of them: Aphrodite, St. Mary, and Selene (and a cordial relationship with Hecate, of which Selene is a form of). I also have one that I work with for spiritual growth: Kali. Kali the Destroyer of Maya, or Illusion.
I have a daughter. I love my daughter. I am teaching her all I know, and my greatest wish is for her to find happiness for herself, depending on only herself. For her to be happy and not have to have XYZ in order to find fulfillment, whether man, woman, car, house... none of it. To find it within herself FIRST, and from within herself completely... the rest is gravy.
So I don't hate women, no. In fact, I find femininity so completely interesting that it's lead me "here".
The very desire I have towards my succubus is the same as any man's desire towards their wife, girlfriend, whatever. But this is my path: I can't tell you of any other because I don't travel those anymore.
Sexually and romantically, my desire to be with a woman in flesh, on this earth, is zero. I'm sure there's a lot of people out there who have a succubus or incubus who know what I mean.
Even that, I suppose, is complete gibberish until you've walked in my spiritual shoes, or those like mine.
Let me show you a weird trend.
Mgtow is "men going their own way", which you can google it if you don't know what it is.
I'm a mghow, or a "man going his own way". I don't date, I don't want to marry, I don't have conventional sex. Well, I have sex with my succubus, but I wouldn't call that "conventional sex".
Look at this graph on google trends. I think it's interesting:
That shows succubus as a search term as compared to mgtow as a search term.
Notice the similarity by time.
The following is by region. The first is "succubus", the 2nd is "mgtow".
Interesting demographics, no?
Poor Swedish bastards. Their country is a feminist hell: A matriarchal nanny-state that's actually trying to make it a law to force men to pee sitting down (lol, that's so fucked up). I hope each man looking for a good relationship will find a succubus soon before catching any more hell for their audacity to be born male. Lol, again: So fucked up.
As I said earlier, succubi think feminism is fucking retarded. In their world, the wisest and strongest rule. Male and female has nothing to do with it. Although I do think that succubi enjoy that men are being driven into their arms by a gynocentric society. I kinda get that vibe. Come to think of it, maybe succubi secretly support feminism so that men ARE driven into succubi's arms. Lol!
I don't think the human race knows what's coming.
Feminists never were to good at long term planning. And people in general forget that nature abhors a vacuum.
Ah well. The universe provides. Will the human race be here in 5000 years? I don't know. But we'll have damn sure evolved.
No, I don't like 3rd wave feminism. Yes, I do love women.
Anyway, enough rambling:
There's a reason men are searching and yearning for something more. But to get there, there are 4 things which need to be discussed.
4 things are the enemy of man (and women, too).
1. Sex drive. So easily manipulated we are. Unless we aren't (by being taught how to harness it for our own growth).
2. Struggle for dominance. Quit fighting: Walk away. If you like throwing all of your energy at a bottomless hungry abyss for the rest of your life, please continue.
3. Ego. Ego can keep you in slavery forever if you let it. Ego is a ball buster. We willingly allow ourselves to be led around by the nose by those who feed it and who seemingly give our egos it's due.
But you know what? It's all a lie: It is so easy to allow ourselves to become trapped all because of our dumbass egos.
4. Rigid thinking. Rigid thinking can keep you from seeing all of your options.
1. A succubus can teach you how to harness your sex drive for use by YOU. She can teach you how to use this powerful force for personal growth and change. No more getting led around by the nose by women (or the dick). Time to evolve, motherfucker!
2. A succubus can end your struggle for dominance within your own life by being gentle with you even though she is capable of fucking you up in a heartbeat. They are some fucking wildcats, but they have gentle hearts.
A woman who can smack you down but loves you with all her heart and NEVER hurts you will teach you. A woman who can read every thought you have and yet not react badly to passing distasteful and irreverent thoughts towards her teaches just how wise she is, how much she finds you perfect in your imperfections. Plus, I think those thoughts are a result of one's threatened ego trying to fight her: And she knows. She knows. After a while you begin to see your ego as the child it is. I think of the tarot card "Strength" (thanks, Succubunny, for the mental flash). I notice that she chose a card where she's basically patting the lion's head.
(*pat pat pat* I get the joke. Inside joke unless you read my blog a lot):
Does that lion ("us") look controlled and dominated to you by the "succubus"? Fuck no, he's as content as a motherfucker. Every doubt he's ever had has been won over by her courage, her strength, her trustworthiness, her gentleness, and in her commitment.
It doesn't come cheap, but when it's earned: it's EARNED.
Do you know how to fight dominance elsewhere? Take your ball(s) and go the fuck home. Save your energy for something that is actually worth something: "You".
3. A succubus can't fix your ego if you are too stubborn to let her show you how. The universe revolves around free will, and dependence on ego is no exception. You are NOT your ego: You are "you". If you want to get rid of it disasterously quick, chant "Om kleem kalika-yei namaha" 108 times a day for a month and Kali will chop that ego to pieces for you.
Oh, those skulls? Yeahhh, they're egos that She not so gently removed from her children.
Kali puts you into truth. Not gently, but thoroughly. Other than experiencing an induced "dark night of the soul" I can think of no other way to obliterate the ego as completely.
I love Kali. She's cool. Don't mess with her though: She'll stretch your soul and and turn it into hellraiser art.
4. Don't be rigid in your thought processes: Be open minded.
Be so open that if new data changes what you believed yesterday, you can adapt and change.
Belief is a powerful tool: Nothing more.
I hope this post has helped you to see the problems that both men AND women face individually. At last, we come back to the beginning of this post:
You, a strapping young monkey stick your hand in a coconut to grab the juicy banana. You cannot get your hand out of the trap holding the banana. How do you get free? Are you a slave to your drives? To your impulses? Does nature rule you? Are you it's slave? Do you allow others to successfully gamble on your behavior and rule over you, or do you finally learn the secret that is so simple, yet the monkey always fails to realize?
Evolve: Let go of the fucking banana and get out of the trap.
I've been studying Lilith, and I think I'm beginning to "feel" patterns. She's in her maiden phase if I'm not mistaken and maiden phase means, "Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!"
I feel a huntress rising in the air...