I found a video that answered many of my questions.
I've been nipping at Mena about a lack of sex and things like that, but after the video it hasn't been a problem anymore.
I'm pretty hesitant to upload demonolatry lectures because frankly I don't understand demonolatry, but in this case the lectures answered so many of my questions I've had in the back of my mind for so long that I'm going to post at least these two lectures anyway.
There's just too much information here that was spot on and it helped so much with my personal walk with Mena already that it would be selfish of me not to share.
Bookmark these, you'll be glad you did.
(Following this lecture, I am including the video lecture regarding the Letter Method by Succupedia which is what I had success with in summoning Mena)
Love and Sex With Demons: What Actually Happens:
Letter to Lilith Asking for Familiar, Demonic Lover, or Spouse: