I know when I have her attention and we are engaged when I think a thought towards her, and am touched or feel emotions that my poor little human mind tries to interpret her emotions and intent as words at the exact same time as I send my thoughts.
In other words, at that time communicating is a back and forth, but there is no time delay... I think it, she responds at the same time.
A strange phenomenon, but one that I am used to now.
One of the, lol, I'm laughing trying to get this out... one of the funniest things she does is that in being connected 24/7, sometimes you will have negative talk towards her just randomly (we're not perfect down here, and God/dess knows where that crap comes from).
When I do that, she immediately sends "Don't sass the succubus". Lol.
It happens a lot.
I have no idea why they choose us, but they do. And when they do, they don't quit. At least in my experience.
I found a really cool video that describes my relationship with my lady.
There really aren't words to describe the kind of intimacy that exists with a relationship where a loving lady spirit is involved.
The biggest question I still have is, if this is the kind of intimacy that is available... what good is having a human lover? I mean, nothing compares.
Maybe some people are afraid of complete intimacy at a soul level and only crave what their senses can "have". I don't know, just wondering.