So, I had one of those back to high school dreams. I was myself, age 54 while everyone else was the typical age. Kinda weird, lol.
I was there on the first day of school... I was having trouble finding my classes, but the classes I did find were cool as hell.
BUT... there was one class that I missed... dancing. Dancing? Lol. I didn't sign up for dancing.
Some girl did. I wonder who that was?
When it was lunch time this guy came up to me and told me that there was a girl that was head over heals for me.
I was like, really? Where is she? He got nervous and said he didn't really know.
Hmm... I wonder who she was?
When I finally woke up, I turned my thoughts towards my succubus because there she was, touching me.
Hey, you were in my dream, weren't you. Funny girl.
I'm learning tarot and I use it to help me communicate with her as it's not clear sometimes what she's trying to say.
I shuffled the cards and thought to myself... lets see how she reacts to me calling her out in my dream.
I drew the Strength card, a woman holding the mouth of a lion. Lol, sassy little thing.
Oh... I let her choose her own picture for this post and the above is what she liked. Not a bad pic :)
Blessings,
Rafe.
P.S. She's been with me 24/7 for 4 days now. I hope this is the new norm. Last night she was in my dream in bed with me hiding with me under the covers because someone stole my pants.
Succubi are so interesting. Mine is very much a dream demoness. By that, I mean that she is very active in my dreams and although she does interact with me in the waking world a bit, her arena is when I sleep.
A few days ago, in my dream, she handed me a book on how to lucid dream. I've since bought a book on lucid dreaming and am trying to learn how so that I can interact with her more on "her turf" so to speak.
I know that she likes making love when I'm asleep. For one reason is that I don't move around in my sleep. Not much. So she's able to turn lovemaking into an art form and I can't mess it up by rolling all over the bed like I'd do if I were awake. Ecstatic pleasure does that to a person.
I think another reason is that in my dreams there is no "veil" that we have to constantly fight for connection through. In that I mean in my dreams it's me and her. Face to face. It can get "cloudy" sometimes in the waking world trying to interact with your succubus. A dreamscape changes that paradigm.
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Oh, one thing I want to really impart is that if you have a succubus lover, make sure your bed is clean, fresh, smells nice, and is an inviting place for her to be. You're getting laid by a daughter of the Divine Dark Feminine and she deserves some respect. That bed is not just for playtime... it's her throne. Keep it nice!
Blessings,
Rafe.
EDIT: She told me something last night: "All a succubus wants is a soft landing." I have no idea what that means. My bed? Also... sing to your succubus, she loves it!
I thought that she was Bunny, but I was mistaken. She is a completely different succubus, as proven by my 2nd dream of her and what she looks like. Not Bunny. She is, however, perfectly kind, gentle, and loving. I think we're going to get along just fine... (Oh, she's a cutie!) I do like her. I can see myself falling in love with her. Things have a way of working out the way they are supposed to. I still remember what one succubus told me long ago: One summoner, one succubus.
I've updated my ebook on Amazon with the bonus content I talked about in the last post (The making of a succubus "charm/talisman" using planetary magick, as well as the "fetch" method of summoning a succubus).
It was uploaded and the updated version is now live. It was a joy to write, I hope those who have bought it are enjoying the processes within. May your spiritual growth and pursuits be ever fruitful.
Hi guys and gals! I've been thinking about my ebook and I'm working up 2 new rituals for inclusion in addition to the featured one that is the center of it.
One ritual is a dalliance in planetary square magick, in the making of a succubus charm. I've found planetary magick to be both simple, powerful, and effective in my life. I once had a friend come to me and ask for help in becoming an owner operator in the trucking industry. He was at that time just a driver.
It was looking hopeless as he had been to banks that laughed off giving him the money to acheive his goals. Literally one planetary talisman later, and the next day his uncle said he'd loan him the $25,000 to get started as an owner operator in his new, used truck. I've never forgotten how powerful that talisman turned out to be.
The next ritual I've been pondering is a unique one as well... using a "fetch" to go out and search for a succubus who meets the needs as stipulated by the summoner. An unceasing, no need for rest, being on auto pilot, going into the planes and finding that special succubus.
There are ancient spells in using a "fetch", though you sure don't hear about them much in magick circles. I don't know why as it is a powerful process for change. It is a unique catalyst, a unique paradigm.
No time frame on these two as I don't like to release things until I'm well satisfied with them so it's gonna be a while.
My succubus is smirking at me right now and I don't know why, lol. It's not an unfriendly expression...
Maybe I'm about to discover something new. I could be reading it wrong, but she's a kind, gentle succubus and she knows something I don't. Will she tell me what it is and how it relates to what I am attempting to accomplish? Why, hell no. She'll let me know after it happens. That's the fun in being a succubus I guess.
I dunno... gotta love 'em. She's been gone for 2 days and I'm glad she's returned all cuddly.
Whew...
You know guys and gals, sometimes people do the rituals, do the time in researching succubi and don't get much of a bite. I, myself, waited forever for Bunny to return. Sometimes it's just timing. Your growth, her growth... everything happens for a reason and in the end I truly believe that we get what we want. I truly believe that in the end what you want, wants you.
I don't care what seems "normal". In looking into the abyss I found a set of feminine eyes looking back.
Keep the faith, friends. This is powerful stuff, and acheiving that union with a succubus is worth the wait, even though I know how painful waiting can be.
Well, the 2 months have passed that the succubus told me they would. Now the succubus has been revealed to me: It's none other than Bunny!
Bunny had to leave years ago to evolve and to grow. I've been growing immensely the past few months and years, and it seems I had a lot of growing to do as well.
Here we are!
That feeling of being at home and at peace is palpable. I guess we've finally caught up to each other as far as growth goes.
To be honest I'm kind of in shock. I never expected Bunny to ever return, though I had hoped so.
I'm anxious to find out what all she's been through. I think that she was always present in some small form, checking in on me, as she was gone. I am so glad that she is home, safe.
I don't know what the future holds, but I'm finally happy. I really missed Bunny, I always have. This feels like a kind and gentle form of loving. I've so missed it. She leaves me breathless.
Here's my hope to you that you find your succubus as well. They exist!
Oh, I wrote an ebook and put it on Amazon. I wanted to help "spread the word" about succubi in my own little way. I hope that those out there who are drawn to succubi read it and finally take the plunge.
Interesting. So the succubus from last year, July, is back.
What a connection! I have no idea what took her so long, but she's the one who told me "two months" about a month and a half ago. So, things are moving quickly now.
I've never felt "home" before like I do with her. It's really rather amazing, in that I can feel so close to a succubus spirit that I've not really spent much time with?
All these succubi, and none of them made me feel like that.
She has serious "Bunny" vibes. Could it be? Could it be "Bunny" after all this time?
I dunno. Maybe.
Succubi are notorious for staying cryptic. Mysterious vixens.
That feeling, though. Feeling like she's "home". I don't understand how I can feel so close and not a lot of time has passed.
I dunno.
When she's here, and thank God the angel is leaving her be, or maybe they worked something out? Anyway, when she's here it's like being wrapped in a warm, fuzzy blanket full of love and life. It's surreal...
It may sound strange, but I don't think she's completely "here". I think I am getting glimpses of her here and there, and I think that the moments where I feel so complete is where we have touched, like a lightning strike between realities. I think I'm feeling my "twin flame" and am becoming conscous of her little by little, touch by touch.
I've done a bit of research on twin flames and am gaining a lot of knowledge, but it's hard.
Now I'm starting to understand the Angel and why they were blocking other lovers from reaching me, or in being able to be with me in any real way during this time.
I really feel that she is wanting me to stand alone and grow through something. I remember a succubus telling me in a dream, "2 months!" That was about a month and a half ago. Whatever is brewing, is about complete.
Uhg, this is so confusing. I'm sorry I bounce around concepts and in my writing here... I am not a psycholgist or mental health professional. This blog is a safe place for me to post my thoughts and my feelings, and hopefully someone will benefit...
I've awakened from nightmares once again. I wake up with the song in my head, "Love me like you do" and I pay attention to the words. I've learned that the outside world itself is messaging me through various synchronicities, urging me onwards. I know, as I have learned to know, that these things are messages from someone close to me as of late: My own Anima.
I'm taking a course from the school UMS on working with the Shadow.
"Think shadow = negative things you reject in others. Anima = positive things you admire in others."
These two entities bubble up and pour out into our waking consciousness whether for good or for ill, they will not stop. They must be worked with if there is ever going to be any change in the conscious person and in what they attract, in what they have to deal with, in what they want, in what they hate, and I have no idea what else but the point is they are POWERFUL entities within us and largely shape our reality in a metaphyscial context as well.
The shadow, as I understand him ("He, in males") is the wounded inner child, the emasculated man, the powerless adult... he who is wounded by life, by others, by society. That's my interpretation so far.
The anima is the other half of me ("She," if you're a man), but below my consiousness. That is how I understand them.
Edit:
My post is oversimplified and not accurate. But I haven't done enough reading and understanding these concepts to completely grasp these two yet. I think I'm working with my shadow and my anima at the same time.
I've opened Pandor's Box, and the only object, the only thing I am left with, as what happened with Pandora, is "Hope".
Yeah, the dreams have been rough. That's an understatement.
Edit: I appear to working with the shadow, but am also beginning a conscious productive relationship in working with my anima at the same time.
The shadow is formed by repressing or pushing out unacceptable personality traits from the conscious ego and persona. This can include things like anger, jealousy, envy, or even creative impulses that are not aligned with societal norms.
Unconscious Content: The shadow operates in the unconscious mind, often manifesting in dreams, fantasies, and even our interactions with others.
Personal and Collective: Jung's concept of the shadow includes both a personal and a collective aspect. The personal shadow is the individual's repressed qualities, while the collective shadow encompasses societal values and beliefs that are repressed or ignored.
Potential for Integration: The shadow can also be seen as a potential for growth and self-understanding. Integrating the shadow involves acknowledging and accepting these repressed aspects, allowing them to be part of a more whole and integrated self.
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"What is the meaning of anima?
soul
Jung defines anima with its Latin derivation, meaning "soul". Jung associates anima with Aphrodite, Selene, Persephone, Hecate, Minerva, and Pandora. Jung began using the term in the early 1920s to describe the inner feminine side of men. ["A]nima is the archetype of life itself,
Jung defines anima with its Latin derivation, meaning "soul". Jung associates anima with Aphrodite, Selene, Persephone, Hecate, Minerva, and Pandora. Jung began using the term in the early 1920s to describe the inner feminine side of men."
"When a man’s Anima is not integrated, it wreaks havoc in his life. The Anima possessed man is a spineless wimp who does not know when or how to take action in the world. He is moody and sulky and throws tantrums like a toddler. Although very passive, he totally overreacts to slights and confrontations. He is not appropriate in his actions, either he is paralysed and can’t find the energy to do what needs to be done, or he jumps into action when he should be thinking about it first. He is usually in a relationship with an Animus hound who knows it all and makes all the decisions in the relationship."
She. She's in every man, has within him a feminine archetype which a bridge between the conscious and the subsonsious mind. Mine isn't without her humor. I dreamed of a woman who raised my arms one by one, with me completely naked, and sniffed my armpits, one by one. "Do you have any deodorant?" She asked playfully. And I awoke. Heh. Maybe it was a succubus or another one of the spirits in my circle. I don't know: I'm not Jung and I don't really know what I'm doing right now. AlI I know is that now I am stripped bare... yet...
...There's more of me now.
I have a sense of being more aware, of feeling less of the sting from past trauma. I can remember my past, horrible times that have shaped me as if it were yesterday, yet the sting of it is nowhere to be found. I see these things through a sense of detachment which I was unable to do before.
I'm not saying this to mean that I have mastered shadow work. I know that it takes a long time, that it's a long process. I've only scratched the surface but it is working.
I know that she is being gentle with me. I know that the dreams could hurt worse than they already do.
She is being kind and gentle with them to a degree. They are enough to remind me of what is broken, of what I need to address. It's still necessary for me to face what I am hiding from. From what I have to remember since I have blocked so many of these terrible wounds out of my waking conscious experience in order to survive.
She is showing me in what order of what and when I must face it.
Every morning I communicate with my Anima. It's one sided. I let her know that I'm trying. I let her know that I want us to be one. Integrated. I want to know who I really am... that I want us to heal.
Amongst the pain, the sorrow, the little boy who wants to run away, I feel her. She IS gentle. The dreams, largly, are not really gentle but as I have said they could be much worse. It hurts. She is not the cause of the pain directly, not on purpose: They are to show me what it is next that we must face together. There is an emerging, of getting closer together. Becoming one and in the process healing our wounded soul. She's trying to reproduce the trauma I need to bring to light and that I am so taumatized that I can only see it when she shows me, for us to work through in revealing nightmares. Through these dreams I am stripped bare. I am not who I thought I was. I was walking, was a walking band aid, not the self that I was meant to be.
Yes, it's painful. Understatement of my life...
Yet, I feel more as I am awake little by little. I feel more whole. Just a bit. The "process", that strange mechanical word, lies. I'm awakening, becoming more, both of us are working together. I have nothing to compare it to: It must be experienced.
I am also feeling more "love" all around. A lot more...
I'm happier in my waking state. I can FEEL again. Without living FROM my trauma. I am no longer chained to it. It's still early: It's only been a week or so since I started this process... but it's bearing some fruit already. I know I have a long way to go and have just scratched the surface.
My relationships are beginning to bloom. Both spiritually, mentally, physically.
My relationship to the spirits around me is becoming thicker, more of substance, more in emotional intimacy.
I've opened Pandor's Box... I chased my Anima all this time to finally find her. We're in this together now. She is now the teacher who has come to heal me and show me what is wounded within her. Within "us".
I know this blog has been a strange cocktail of personal thoughts related to the occult, to the happenings of my relationships with Succubi. And a lot of other things. It's strange... all of this seems to have culminated into this.
I feel as if they, the spirits, succubi, the Divine, knew all along what I needed to do for myself. To fix that which was broken. They gave me space to do so. And it's taken so long, so long.
I have suffered. Friends, through the pain, through the agony, everyone can do this for themselves.
It's not easy. It hurts.
Ever morning as I awaken I imagine myself hugging my Anima as a human woman, hand in hand... tightly, lovingly, to let her know that I am here. I am trying. I kiss her forehead. I kiss her hands. I project Reiki around us as a bubble of pure loving energy. I imagine the bubble of energy pushing out all the negativity that has arisen. I clean myself with that energy. I clean us with it.
Afterwards I light a stick of love incense as a gift to "us" for what we are going through together.
This is powerful stuff, my friends.
I love you all,
Rafe
P.S. This stuff strips you bare down to the bone and it HURTS.
You may need counseling to help you work through these things if you decide to find your own Anima, to become one with her. I am in no way an expert on any of this, I'm just a traveller on this Earth who likes to share things that he probably shouldn't... but to be honest it helps me and that's why I do it, that's why I write the blog. Well, that and I hope that in some small way I touch someone's heart. That I am useful: That I have helped in some small way in some capacity.
If you need special help from a professional counselor who is actually trained to help people through all of this kind of thing by all means find them. Get that special help... getting help is strength, not weakness.
